I used to be a bit of a lad. Don’t get me wrong I always wanted to be a dad, now I am one and it’s the most wonderful thing in the world. Still miss being a lad though, so I’m a lad in secret, in my head.

My wife earns more than me so I am the primary care giver to our two sons, T who is seven and H who is four. I cook, clean, tidy, drop off, pick up, cook , clean, tidy, bath…

I was a lad, I didn’t know how to do any of these things so have had to grow up and learn fast. This blog shares some of my stories of fatherhood, my gripes and moans about life and tips and recipes to try and make stay at home dads (or any dads for that matter), feel that they are not by themselves.